Not a whole lot going on this weekend, which was wonderful! Friday night I got to spend some time at home in the evening with my "Friends." Heehee- I had a couple friends over and we just vegged and watched episodes of Friends. Now that I'm looking back over my weekend...I pretty much watched Friends all weekend. How lame...but yet so enjoyable! Anyhow, Wes played Risk with some friends upstairs for a while. Saturday- I could have slept in, but did I? No! I was so upset that I couldn't just sleep a little longer. I was awake by 7:30. Oh well, maybe my dream of sleeping until 10am is lost forever...
Lisa & Shannon came over Saturday morning. It was good time spent catching up. It's great having family here-although it felt a little weird at first how we were all going back to our own homes in the evening! Usually we're vacationing together, so it's been an adjustment to have our own space! Wes & Jason came back from shopping at the Outlets. (Yes, I said shopping!) and Wes decided to make a big Saturday lunch for everyone. It was very yummy. We had our first experience eating at the dinner table in our 2nd bedroom. Let me explain... Last Tuesday our apartment flooded, unfortunately. We had about 3 gallons of water in there and had to get it extracted by some fancy machine... Well, in the midst of this, we had to rearrange the furniture so the carpet could dry. After said carpet was dry, we decided after living here for almost 9 months, it was time for a re-arrange. With the limited amount of space in our living/dining room, we decided to turn Wes's office/2nd bedroom into our dining room/Wes's office. Thus, giving us more space in the living room and utilizing our 2nd bedroom when needed. Now, all I think we need are TV trays and we'll be set!
Today was nice. We didn't need to be at Crossings until 9:15am! Lately, I have been playing keys in our Worship band on Sundays a lot more, which is great because I really enjoy it. But, it was really nice to take our time getting to church a little later this morning. 6:30am just gets a little too early to have to leave the house by! After church, Wes, Ryan (our friend & upstairs neighbor) went to eat lunch at the Gondolier. Had another yummy pizza. Wes got sick and thought the food was not good. Then we got to listen to someone at the next table complain about their meal and then storm off. Now, I'm not usually someone who really speaks their mind on these blogs, but is it really necessary to tell a restaraunt manager that the "veal parmesan" wasn't really what you expected and you think you know how they should prepare it and then get angry and leave abruptly. Is it really that important to you? Maybe that is just foreign to be because it's not really my nature to complain in restaraunts or at least not to someone in management (If it's not good I usually just don't eat it, and tell those around me.)
The rest of the afternoon was great- worked in our filing cabinet. Always feels like there are papers to be filed away, shred or handled. It's a never-ending pile. This evening, we walked down to my office and I worked for about an hour. Wes walked down with me to take some time to read and pray. It was really nice just to get out of the house. We've definitely been home-bodies this weekend.
My favorite part of the whole weekend... spending time with Wes. We've been really trying to develop more friendships outside of each other, and I think we've been doing a great job and growing those friendships and making more of an effort to do things separately. With that said, sometimes it just takes a little time away to really enjoy each other's company. It's nice to miss him. We had several opportunities for some girl time/boy time this weekend. I've decided that it's very difficult for me to understand how to remain two separate individuals, and yet rely completely on each other (apart from our dependence on our Creator.) I guess it has to be some type of inter-dependence. It's a very difficult idea for me to grasp.
Does anyone else have this type of issue? How do you handle or manage? Any tips?